The purpose of a funeral or memorial service is to celebrate the life of the deceased and to honor their memory. Services provide a venue where we can gather with friends and loved ones to remember and to find comfort through sharing the burden of loss with others who are also mourning. Planning and carrying out a meaningful funeral and cremation service in Holland, MI can be challenging, given the circumstances. Yet nothing speaks love more than honoring the deceased in a way that helps all who grieve to begin healing.
Since funerals and memorials can be as large or small as the family desires, it’s important to take note of the basics of planning the gathering:
Think for a moment about who will likely attend the service. To help you get a better idea of who may come, start a list. Write the names of all family and friends. While writing, more names will likely come to you. Next, move to think of any other social connections of the deceased. For example, think about their workplace colleagues, any hobby or activity groups with which they were associated, any faith community, civic club, or other networks.
It’s a good idea to contact family and close friends first to inform them of the death. You can share what information you have about any tribute service at that time, but since you’re still planning these details, you can also provide that information at a later time through a public medium. For example, it’s appropriate to share funeral details on social media, email, in a digital obituary site, such as a funeral home website or in a printed circulation. Sharing information does not need to be formal. There is no need to send out invitations. Those who can come to the services will do so.
Choosing between cremation care and casket burial is a matter of preference. Both of these disposition options have their own unique advantages. What you choose can have an impact on when you need to hold the funeral and cremation service in Holland, MI.
A funeral, for example, is generally held shortly after death has occurred. The quick timeline is so that the remains of the deceased can be present at the service before being laid to rest. Traditional funeral services usually place the remains of the deceased in a casket and bury them in the ground, where a headstone is erected to mark their final resting place. Families and friends can visit their loved one at this fixed location as desired.
Cremations also tend to occur shortly after death. There is no need to hold a tribute service at that time, unless the family wishes to hold a funeral with the deceased’s remains present before the cremation. Direct cremations happen without any tribute services, whereas a cremation with a service does. The ashes of the deceased are then laid to rest in whatever manner the family chooses. Some families will still bury the ashes in an ash garden, or inurn and place them in a columbarium niche. Others will choose to keep the ashes in a personalized urn at home or to make keepsake jewelry with the ashes. Still others will make a choice to scatter the ashes in a place of meaning, where legally allowed.
Time and Date
After deciding on the type of disposition your family prefers, you can choose your timeline for when and where services will take place. Most commemorative services take place in places such as funeral homes, places of worship, homes, public buildings, or outdoors. When needed, more than one service can be held, and in multiple locations.
Both funeral and memorial services are commonly led by members of clergy, such as a minister, pastor, or rabbi. But it is not a mandatory practice. If preferred, other qualified professionals can conduct the services for the deceased person and their community that gather. A funeral director, a celebrant, or even a family member or friend can lead the service. The most important thing is that the service is personalized to honor the deceased and not to get lost in the details of ceremony or protocols of tradition.
Trusted Funeral and Cremation Care in Holland, MI
At Michigan Cremation & Funeral Care, our compassionate professionals consider it a great honor to serve those individuals and families that come to us for support. Ours is a work to serve the living while caring for the dead. Putting your trust in us to look after your fallen loved one is a privilege that we take seriously. For everything from preneed to the moment of need, contact us for expert funeral and cremation services in Holland, MI. You can visit our funeral home at 3627 Linden Ave SE Grand Rapids, MI 49548, or call us at (616) 452-3006 to speak with our director about how we can serve you.